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January 27, 2009 · 2:17 PM

Claiming one’s virginity is something to dance about

By Justice

I’ve taken several people’s lap dance virginity. Finding out that you’re about to be someone’s first can be kind of nerve-wracking. Stripping is a job. It’s physical labor but it can be emotional too. You’re selling a weird combination of sexual contact and affection. Yes, I work for money but I really do want my customers to have a positive experience. I had the opportunity to take another person’s “virginity” a few days ago. He was 30 years old and, hence, an atypical virgin. The usual virgin is an awkward 21-year- old. I once had a customer whose mom bought him a lap dance. “My son thinks you’re really pretty. Will you give him a lap dance?” That was strange. Poor kid.

On the topic of virgins, I am now working at a place where girls go to begin stripping. It is square one for new strippers. It is refreshing to realize how innocent they can be. A few days ago, a girl ran into the locker room and grabbed fistfuls of baby wipes and began to wipe frantically at her bare, young chest. “I just made some guy nut!” She was horrified. I laughed. Really, getting jizz on your boobs is like stripper baptism. You can keep wiping but you’ll never be clean again.

Another girl was shocked that someone asked her to go to his hotel room for some extra money. It was her second shift as a stripper. It was so sweet. She told every single person at work that she had been propositioned. I thought that it was the beginning of a story, but it was actually the whole story. That sort of thing happens on such a regular basis that I never even think about it after the customer goes away. It’s kind of irritating but not worth a mention. I advised her to mislead people from time to time. I encouraged her to make the VIP room sound like heaven. Beat them at their own game. She said she would feel bad. “Feeling bad isn’t going to make you any money,” I tell her. The innocence at this new strip joint is just precious.

Ah, you refresh memories of my wastrel youth as an army private first introduced to the bumps and grinds at the Block in Baltimore, in an earlier time when all the world was young. I conjured up an archetype of a stripper as a sweet and innocent young dancer, with a heart of gold beneath her scanty raiment. Stories like this just reinforce the concept. Thanks for the memory!

Posted by: rrbill on 1/28/09 at 11:16 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Strip clusb are not real life as you pointed out in one of your posts. Looks fade (plus its not even always the more beautiful girl who makes money), and guys at 90% just want either free sex or pay for it ... Its like that i guess...

I met a dancer, fell in love with her, but it did not work out. She was in a mess financially and i helepd her out lots always saying she'd pay me back but i never ask for anything i dont help someone to have anything in return.. I had @ some points, her love, affection but like in any relationship it went away and all she had in mind was to pay me back as if like that we would be even .. Il always refuse so...

What im trying to tell the owner of this blog is that if you see a good guy who falls in love with you, play with him for a few weeks but after a while make sure to tell him that you are not dating customers, that you are not one of these girls and if ever you date it will take some time...

@ your end just make sure to understand that is not all about money... Ill never regret falling in girl for my girlfriend or anything... The only thing that will make me bitter is that after 3yrs she dumped (so far no problem) but showed and agressive attitude towards me (still not a problem) but still inspite treating me poorly expected me to keep helping her as a friend as she had gotten used to me being there for her ...

DOnt get me wrong, she needed financial, help, she is not a slut, not married, does not have 15 bf, does drink nor druggs, barely gives out her phone bumber .. Like you she is a beautiful UNLV student with hopes of finding Mr Right but unfrotunately drama and this job makes it difficult and i beelive she grows bitter inside and hates htis job everyday a bit more...

HOwever she is a great woman, funny,sweet,smart,gorgeous, sincere, sexy, a woman that you can not buy with gifts and words, a woman that is very spiritual and can own you in that sense like many women can ...

I just wished that the sweet girl she is who promised me to pay me back and never turned into an ungrateful woman who however remains proud and insist on paying me back ...

She is a great person ...
I admire her for being sane in that environement in which she is regularly asked out and says no or avoids the question or if the guy insists tells ehr she got rules. I admire her for keeping her attitude and not datign any club relatives, and staying strong and not drink or anything like that ... IT might sound normal for most of us but to stay with the same values and not yieldign to guys (and offerign even more outside for sex i find that amazing of her in that context...

Posted by: natkingcolebasket on 2/4/09 at 4:19 a.m. (Suggest removal)

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