Awol737,

You're saying that we may as well throw all the rules out the window? If we allow nudity, than we should also allow sexual abuse and maybe full blown prostitution? There are a lot of situations that can occur on that continuum that aren't completely innocent or completely sex.
You don't believe there can be pleasurable lap dances where the patrons are well behaved? I never said that I expect to make my money by just showing up. I expect to be in some physical pain at the end of a shift from all the lap dances. Is it wrong that I just don't want to be fingered and groped while I do those dances?

Few clubs have policies against tattoos. Some say no tattoos at all and some just require them to be covered. Most places allow you to be inked up like a sailor.

natkingcolebasket:

Now when did I say that any of the girls with whom I work are illegal aliens? I just said that there are a lot of foreigners.
As for working under 21 at a non-nude club, it is possible but very very difficult. You need two forms of ID (one of which requires a police background check) and a business license. You get fingerprinted by the club and I believe they send the police department a report of who is working there. That being said, I've of heard of it happening anyway.

rrbill:

I want to be on the side of women's rights but I think this is a different issue. When there is alcohol involved, I think all the extra panties are for everyone's protection.
And I think a little mystery is way sexier.

=)

natkingcolebasket:

I appreciate compliments but what he was doing was forcing himself into an interaction with me that was completely unwanted. If he would have said something like "I just wanted to say that I think you're really pretty", I would have thanked him before I sent him away. What he did was aggressive and out of line.

rrbill:

They were really young. Probably younger than me. I hope they learned a lesson from the situation. I have a feeling they didn't.

natkingcolebasket:

I'm not going to quit yet.
Yes, often times, the more they spend, the more they think they deserve.

rrbill:

I was unaware of this myth. Some people are better at being the dominant person in a conversation, I suppose. And I guess those people like to talk about it because they're out perpetuating myths?

sheckyvegas:

lol. Larger than lemons.