We weren't interested in traditional arrangements because it seemed that these arrangements suggested that couples suddenly had to sacrifice so much to accommodate the relationship. It seemed strange to us that someone would enter a relationship with someone whom they claimed they cared for, and would then immediately place restrictions upon them. We decided to demonstrate a unique kind of bond. One where we gladly encouraged the other person to travel, and grow, and explore. We wanted each other to be sexually as well as socially independent. Granting the other person the freedom to taste life fully and without restriction, we felt, was the ultimate act of saying, "I care about you."
We weren't interested in traditional arrangements because it seemed that these arrangements suggested that couples suddenly had to sacrifice so much to accommodate the relationship. It seemed strange to us that someone would enter a relationship with someone whom they claimed they cared for, and would then immediately place restrictions upon them. We decided to demonstrate a unique kind of bond. One where we gladly encouraged the other person to travel, and grow, and explore. We wanted each other to be sexually as well as socially independent. Granting the other person the freedom to taste life fully and without restriction, we felt, was the ultimate act of saying, "I care about you."
-Cayce